Thought of mine

I like to share some of my thoughts. 

I remember growing up, I was exposed to a certain  lifestyle, I enjoyed it and lived  it. As I Grew older I began to assess the lifestyle and see if it was right. After my assessment, I realized the lifestyle wasn’t harmful, was right but not realistic. 

A lifestyle that portrayed the best ways to live, but wasn’t yielding result. So I switched it a little bit. I began to change my mindset. My lifestyle has to yield result positively to be the right way to live. 

Learning from others mistake, not mine is a bold step people don’t wanna take because the stakes are high. 

One thing I want my generation or the ones coming after me to be: is to be realistic. Have your bars high but be realistic. Season  upon season assess your lifestyle and make sure it is right.

Because when it’s right and yielding positive result ; it is of GOD! 

#Blessings #thoughts

Help of Helpless

I met a Church Brother recently,...

asking me to "help him have a future." Very funny to me cause i noticed he uses an iPhone 11pro.max, but he appeared somehow rough and hungry. .

I looked at him and told him "My Brother, you don't need help; Your future is in your hand"

You can't remain in the Church or Mosque, praying for God's blessings and expect a turnaround.

Nothing changes around you without first changing from within you.

It is gross laziness and ignorance when you keep praying for breakthrough and you don't work for it. Let no Pastor or Imam deceive you. The bible says  God is going to bless the works of your hands. I have been there! dont die poor!

This Generation needs to wake up and stop covering Reality with Spirituality.

Hope you gat me right 

WHO IS OUR PROBLEM?,

1.The trader who removes 2 bowls of rice from the bag, repackages, and sells as a 'full' bag is complaining about the wickedness in Nigeria.

2.The lecturer who insists on sex for a young girl to pass is complaining about the rot in Nigeria.

3.The Pastor who pays his driver 15K in Lagos or Abuja while his son schools in the USA is complaining about the hopelessness in Nigeria. 

4. The Mallam (Local Islamic school teachers) who send other people's children to go and beg in the name of Almajiri and bring the money

to him on oath so that he will take care of his family while the Almajiri's are looking like slaves is complaining that Nigerian leaders don't know God. 

5.The civil servant who comes to work once a week and shows up at the end of the month to receive full salary and kickbacks is complaining about politicians who do nothing.

6.The student who spends the whole weekend at the party after party only to start posting Instagram pictures on Monday is complaining that Nigeria is stealing his/her dreams.

7.The "VIP driver" who can't join a simple queue but keeps overlapping in and out of traffic to shunt is complaining about disorderliness in Nigeria.

8.Doctors in public and teaching hospitals on the government payroll who abandon patients on the floor but are thriving in their private hospitals are complaining that Nigeria is hopeless.

9. The officer who sees 'roger' as his/her birthright and keeps on complaining that our leaders are evil and therefore Nigeria is doomed. 

10. The members who diverts the money and property of his/her organisation for personal use is complaining about bad leadership in Nigeria.

1. Until we realize that the value of Nigeria today is the average of our values, we will keep fooling ourselves.

We are all architects of our social and economic development woes.

Stop the blame game. CHANGE begins with YOU.

FOOD FOR THOUGHT 👇

Our attitudes and unpatriotic behaviors should stop.

BE the CHANGE you want to SEE!

A gratitude heart

A boy was standing, barefoot, in front of a shoe store shivering with cold. A lady came up and said:

"My little friend, what are you looking with such interest in that window?"

He replied, "I'm asking God to give me a pair of shoes."

The lady took him by the hand and led him into the store and asked a clerk for half a dozen pairs of socks for the child and a pair of shoes. She asked if she could lend her a tub of water and a towel and led the boy to the back of the store. She lovingly began to wash the child's feet and dried them, then put on his socks and shoes. She patted the boy on the head and said:

"There is no doubt little friend that you feel more comfortable now!".

As she turned to leave, the boy, very happy, caught up with her and took her by the hand, looking at her with tears in her eyes, he asked:

"Are you the wife of God?

The Lady replied:

*" ""No, I'm just a grateful woman with what he has given me,"".❤️"*......................# _GRATITTUDE IS_ _ATTITUDE_🥰

GETTING OLDER LAUGH IT OUT.

I changed my car horn to gunshot sounds. People get out of the way much faster now.

Gone are the days when girls used to cook like their mothers. Now they drink like their fathers..

I didn't make it to the gym today. That makes five years in a row.

I decided to stop calling the bathroom the 'John' and renamed it the 'Jim'. I feel so much better saying "I went to the Jim this morning".

Old age is coming at a really bad time. When I was a child I thought “Nap Time” was a punishment. Now, as a grownup, it feels like a small vacation.

The biggest lie I tell myself is..."I don't need to write that down, I'll remember it."

I don't have grey hair; I have "wisdom highlights" I'm just very wise.

Don't ever ask me to bend down and touch my toes.  If God wanted me to touch my toes, He would have put them on my knees.

Last year I joined a support group for procrastinators We haven't met yet.

Of course I talk to myself; sometimes when I need expert advice.

At my age "Getting lucky" means walking into a room and remembering what I came in there for.

Actually I'm not complaining because I am a Senager. (Senior teenager) 

I have everything that I wanted as a teenager, only 60 years later.

- I don’t have to go to school or work.

- I have a driver’s license and my own car.

- I get an allowance every month.

- I have my own ipad (although I can't recall where I kept it)

- I don’t have a curfew.

Life is great.

I have more friends I should send this to, but right now I can't remember their names.

Now, I’m wondering…did I send this to you, or did you send it to me?

*Have a good chuckle. Laughter is a good Medicine* 

😀😀😀😀😀😀

SEX, LOVE AND VIRGINITY

SEX, LOVE AND VIRGINITY!!!

A lot of girls complain that guys walk away from them simply because,they refused giving them s*x,some are even tempted to give away their virginity just to keep the guys

- Let_Me_Be_Very_Blunt_Here...😇

Virginity may not be the real reason why the guys go away, yes, no doubt, there are several guys who want s*x, and if they don't get it, they walk away...😬

The problem may not be the virginity or the s*x...😎

The story of the Ten virgins in the Bible reveals that both the wise and the foolish were virgins; the other Five were not allowed seeing the bridegroom not because they were virgins or because they lost their virginity...

NO! But because they were foolish and they were called foolish because they had no EXTRA_OIL 🙌. And the EXTRA OIL here is CHARACTER!🙋

Most girls do not have extra oil to sustain any relationship, while many brag about their virginity, that's all they have to offer. 👤

Aside your virginity, what do you have to offer to a man?

- Can you support him spiritually?

- Can you support him physically?

- How about mentally?

All you do is demand money for bag 👜, shoes👠👠, clothes 👗👖👙, and outing, making him spend unnecessarily.

Have you ever sit him down, and you help him plan about his future?💭

Has he ever seen you as someone he can confide in?👫

How many times has he come being in a state of dilemma seeking advice from you?😭

Rather than jumping from one club to another. 😵😱

And for the virgins, they forget that virginity ends after the wedding, but EXTRA OIL continues...

Yes... Nobody is perfect... 

We all have our bad sides...

BUT...

Try to be a woman that a man will always regret losing for the rest of his life...

Be that woman that your man can never afford to lose to another man 😊.

Build your man to your taste... 

And stop looking for a ready made husband 😏😏😏.

* Force yourself on that rich dude that you didn't work with to achieve what he has..., 

And hear the story of your life from him one day 😂😂😂.

- Did You Work With me to achieve all I've got? 

- Ever since you've entered this house... What has added to what you met?

* Note:

- There's just nothing as best as building up your man yourself.

- And you will forever earn his #RESPECT  ✌✌✌.